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Jun 20, 2022Liked by Elizabeth Felicetti

It does seem like there is a “cancer hierarchy,” with some seeming more deserving of sympathy than others. I’m sure you’ve been asked more than once if you were a smoker. I think this all stems from fear, of wanting to protect ourselves from the likelihood that it might be us next. But I love how you put it -- that having lungs is the biggest risk factor. That puts it in perspective. My mom died of colon cancer and was also heavy, and I still myself get trapped in thinking maybe she got it because she was -- okay-- fat. And I feel ashamed about that. But I’m still working on my attitude when those thoughts come up. Thanks for writing about this.

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Jun 19, 2022Liked by Elizabeth Felicetti

A beautiful read, as always, Elizabeth. I'm sorry to learn about your diagnoses, yet grateful for this new perspective on the varying social significance of different cancers.

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Jun 19, 2022Liked by Elizabeth Felicetti

Elizabeth you bless us in sharing your experiences. I love that you are honest and not afraid to speak the truth, even with cuss words when needed! One reason your writing is so good is because it is real. My prayer is that you stay healthy and keep writing.

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Dear Elizabeth,

I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you.

I will pray for you each day, that you have energy, are free from fear, hear God’s voice, and sleep well at night. Please continue be strong, and take courage. I am trusting God will fully heal and restore you.

Grace, peace, and lots of love,

Carole Halmekangas

PS

Your writing is beautiful. What a gift!

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Jun 18, 2022Liked by Elizabeth Felicetti

The words "I'm sorry" seem so inadequate for all that you have gone through. It's hard to know what to say that would be positive and uplifting. The silence that you felt and heard was due to some of us not knowing what to do. I for one was afraid of losing my beloved priest. And you were fighting a battle that only you could fight. And the victory is yours! You are meant to do great things still - writing is one so far. When the time is right, you will know what you are to do next. Only a few know that I deal with Jeckle & Hyde on a daily basis. Some days I have to take several deep breaths just to get though. It is said that you aren't given more than you can handle. And you handled everything with such glory and grace. Your inner strength is amazing just like you are amazing.

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Jun 17, 2022Liked by Elizabeth Felicetti

It's hard for me to read that, Biz. I feel bad and sad for what you've gone through. It seems we all go through difficult challenges in this life. We are fortunate to have good friends who support us through our difficulties. I have such a hard time with western medicine, it feels nightmare-ish, what you must've gone through. Especially in the middle of covid. But I have had some successes with western medicine too, in emergency situations. But the medical-industrial complex did not serve me well at all with my head injury. So I choose to stay away as much as possible. I choose to do as much as I can for my health by feeding my body the very best produce I can find, getting exercise and being with people I love and resonate with. Hugs and love to you! God bless you!

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Jun 17, 2022Liked by Elizabeth Felicetti

I don't personally have any experience with cancer, but I've lived with a chronic adrenal syndrome & familial migraines that have changed, in so many ways, the paths I've chosen in life. We are all shaped in ways we can't control. What I know about you, Elizabeth, is that you will use every last experience in your life in your writing, and those things will make your work richer and deeper. Sending hugs and prayers for a peaceful, productive summer. Pat

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Jun 17, 2022Liked by Elizabeth Felicetti

It’s been a helluva June. As the caregiver, my greatest daily accomplishment is not going all the way down the slippery slope. I’m not always successful, but I give it my best shot. For me personally, I find being organized & having a daily schedule for us (my husband being the patient), is tremendously helpful. I get that from my dad. Perhaps it’s a Felicetti trait❓ 🥰

Thank you for sharing Elizabeth, it truly helps. Even though I wish you didn’t have the experience.

Love & light, J

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Jun 17, 2022Liked by Elizabeth Felicetti

You might like to connect with Dave Bjork. Happy to make the introduction

https://bumpintheroad.us/dave-bjork-research-evangelist/

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